Q: describe your dream guy.what is the most important factor in a potential partner for you?
A: Hmmm....there is always the fantasy of the "perfect man"...dark hair, light eyes (preferably blue), great smile, handyman type, sensitive but strong, can sing and/or play a musical instrument; shares my love for traveling, going to concerts, photography, Disney, and animals. Someone who is kind and chivalrous (something that seems to be lost on most men in my generation) and likes to cuddle. Humor is something that I think most people enjoy in a partner and I am no exception. It's a great thing to be with someone that can make you laugh and smile. Plus I can have a pretty dirty sense of humor myself, so someone that can keep up, but isn’t just bluntly vulgar, would be a plus.
It’s common knowledge, to all who know me, that I love Mike Rowe…with the exception of being a lil hairier than I would like, and about 15 years older, he is the closest that I have seen to my idea of the “perfect man” . As far as body type, I tend to like guys with “climber bodies”. I am an arm girl…a man with some nice guns can turn me on. Haha But he doesn’t have to be totally fit. I also like my guys with some meat on their bones…not rock solid or bulging muscles everywhere…not to say I like a beer belly, that’s a no no, just a lil extra meat. (I don’t want to feel like I have to be constantly working out to look like a perfect specimen to keep up with my man…I’m too lazy for that, plus I can think of better things to do with my time than constantly be at a gym) He can’t smoke cigarettes or be a heavy drinker. No bad teeth or beer bellies…yuck.
I want my partner to be my best friend. The two most important things in a relationship to me are trust and communication (inside and outside of the bedroom). Someone who has a good head on their shoulders, and doesn’t need someone to constantly take care of them. And a secure person that can handle the fact that I have a lot of male friends, but know and trust that I would never do anything with them. I am a one man kind of woman, and just “one of the guys” with my male friends.
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